Living in the Christmas Season

The images of the “Holiday season” are lovely aren’t they? Multi-generation families happy, healthy, and whole. Friends sharing food and good times. People at peace with themselves and with each other.

But these images also point out the distance between the way we want our lives to be  and the reality that falls so short of the mark. In between the reality and the ideal is a tough place to be. But yet that is where we live. At least it’s where everyone that I know lives.

in between our hopes and our reality

in between the person I know I should be and the person I am

in between generosity and stinginess born of fear

in between open hearts and locked doors

in between “thy kingdom come” and “forgive us our sins”

There is so much social pressure to be jolly and festive this time of year both in secular society and in the church. Those of us who aren’t jolly, who are aware of their in-between status, can feel oddly out of place.

 Guess what? That’s all right.

The traditional church name for these weeks before Christmas is Advent. Advent, was historically a rather solemn season of waiting. The early church knew our joyful anticipation of Christ’s coming cannot happen without awareness of the broken present.  Historically and some branches of Christianity today, Advent is a time of fasting. The liturgical color for Advent is purple, the same color as Lent.

We live in the in- between. Christ has come and Christ will come again. Advent reminds us of this. We tell the old stories about Jesus’ birth, familiar, comforting and yet odd and disconcerting. 

Advent is not about jolly festivities but rather joyful anticipation as we encourage each other to be about the work of disciples, feeding, caring, loving.

 And the acts we encourage and the things we do as a secular society can actually help us feed, care, and love each other. Even if people are not religious, during “The Holidays” folks make an extra effort. We donate food. We pluck names off Christmas trees in our office, or in the mall and give presents to strangers. We give to Toys for Tots. We give year-end donations to our favorite causes.  We take cookies to neighbors. We visit nursing homes.  We gather as neighbors to watch plays about Santa and Elves and Flying reindeer. We put  lights on trees and sing together on a cold, dark December night.

In the midst of frenzied consumerism, much good is done.  People are fed, community ties are strengthened, neighbors are cared for.  If I open my eyes, I see God at work in familiar and comforting ways as well as in odd and disconcerting ways.

It’s three weeks until Christmas. Don’t worry about the jolly festivities.  Seek the glimpses,that are all around us, of God at work in familiar and odd ways. Find your way to participate in the familiar and odd work that is happening all around you as we wait in  joyful anticipation.

11 thoughts on “Living in the Christmas Season

  1. Very, very nice. Sunday, I am using both Luke texts with a bent towards discernment as a spiritual practice. May I quote you?


  2. Thanks for the kind words, FrancesLee and Elaine. Elaine, yes you may quote me. I’m pleased you think I wrote something worth quoting.

  3. Thanks Nancy. Right now, I am using a bit of your second paragraph and your inbetween examples. And I will give full credit publically and footnoted.

    I remember our pathology teacher (german…his name eludes me) saying, “One can only write so many good test questions…no need to reinvent the wheel”. Well, why try to improve on what is already very good.

    Or as I heard the other day: I do not have to re-invent the wheel…I just roll it.

    1. Ah yes, Dr. Rudy Clarenburg. What interesting places you and I have ended up in- never in a million years would have guessed. And we are not finished yet. Are your sermons on line? or too soon to know?

  4. This was very good–even healing. The art of being “jolly” eludes me altogether. But joyful anticipation–inner joy that often makes no sense– and solemn anticipation go together like two sides of a coin. I don’t think it possible to have one without the other. And they aren’t dictated by circumstances. They aren’t dictated by success or failure. They make theri way into our lives by faith. How remarkable is that. Worth solemn anticipation for sure.

  5. I meant to leave a note earlier to say this was a great post, Nancy. The theme of the already, not yet of God’s kingdom has been prominent on my mind since my bible college days, and a great deal more relevant to my life than much other Christian teaching I’ve encountered.

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